User talk:NightAngel11476

Ban Request Discussion
As an admin, I've glanced over this. I'm at work now, so will leave the final decision to another admin who has time to dig further into the history and review the full conversation/debate that took place. The ban request does ask for opinions on the user's talk page, so here are mine. My initial reaction was to simply delete the ban request as unwarranted - the personal attacks were not large. However, the continual condescending attitude during the discussion/debate, the egging-on of another user (ie: Skuld), and the gloating over having done so on another users talk page are all immature and marginally disruptive. Does this disruption warrant a ban? To me, not at this stage - although a warning to NightAngel does seem warranted. But as I said, I'll leave the final call to another admin who has time to dig further. --- Barek (talk • contribs) - 13:43, 5 December 2006 (CST)


 * Oh, I've learned my lesson. Arguing with people who can't or won't argue is just asking for trouble. What really makes me angry is not whether you promote the build to best build ever or delete it. I'm using it and will continue to do so whatever happens in this Wiki. What makes me angry is that Skuld (or Auron, are they the same person?) is quick to dismiss and despise skills, builds, users, etc, even to the point of "Unfavouring" a build that was previously favored because he didn't like it!. I believe this to be a narrow-minded attitude and it makes me incredibly angry. It's a flaw, I'll admit. There are a LOT of ppl out there who "just can't be bothered" with anything new, different or odd. Getting angry at all of them is an exercise in futility that will probably leave me fisting walls. Maybe it's masochism. At any rate, I apologize for PERSONAL offenses, but not for the debate. Debates are healthy. Saying "BS, scrap this" (or similar words) is not healthy. It's not constructive criticism. Do users of this wiki have to be constructive? Hell no. But wouldn't it be nice? That's all. Thank you and sry for offenses - the arguments should pertain only to the build, skills or facts in general. Your capacity to argue or think should be something each user should be able to discern by him or herself. Not my place to judge it, all I can really hope is that it becomes as clear to others as it is to me. If it isn't, then maybe I'm the one who is wrong. As for me, the build section is a resource for great ideas. Some more polished than others. Killing ideas seems like an awful job, but maybe somebody has to do it...NightAngel 14:05, 5 December 2006 (CST)


 * Although you are accusing Skuld and Auron of sockpuppetry, I'll just ignore iy. It's great that you are willing to discuss, even if it's i na slightly negative manner. Remember that Skuld and the others are using hours and hours each day in the wiki, trying to make it even better all the time. Sometimes mistakes are made and sometimes they are not in the mood to targue with someone for some reason. Still, one or two mistakes are really small compared to what they have done to help the wiki. Making a huge war of a small mistake (I don't know if Skuld or Auron made any mistakes, I didn't really read all of the ocnversations) doesn't serve them right and I can understand why Skuld wnated to stop the discussion shortly. I'm also willing to stop discussion when I get angry, and it's possible better to do so than to get angry and start a meaningless argument. --[[Image:Gem-icon-sm.png]] (talk) 15:07, 5 December 2006 (CST)


 * Edit conflict:


 * I appreciate that you acknowledge that you were wrong to personally insult Skuld.


 * Skuld and Auron are not the same people. I know from experience that Skuld and Auron are not narrow-minded. They do not despise skills/builds/users.


 * While I'm glad you are willing to apologise for your personal attacks I am disappointed that you would use this opportunity to insult Skuld and Auron, and it makes me question the sincerity of your apology.


 * Skuld and Auron had no requirement to justify their votes. Skuld justified his vote to the extent that he did out of courtesy; he could have left his vote at unfavoured and not bothered any further.


 * I don't think this situation requires a ban, but I hope that your behaviour on the wiki in future is more polite.  &lt;LordBiro&gt;/&lt;Talk&gt; 15:15, 5 December 2006 (CST)


 * Post edit conflict:


 * I don't think that was a serious accusation of sock-puppetry, Gem :)  &lt;LordBiro&gt;/&lt;Talk&gt; 15:15, 5 December 2006 (CST)


 * Maybe they aren't narrow-minded, but that's my opinion. I'm not using an opportunity for insults... Hm. I don't know. If someone has a low IQ on a test, and you say "that person has a low IQ", is that an insult? No, it's a fact. But in this case it just boils down to opinions. I can't PROVE anyone is narrow-minded, can I? Maybe I can say an argument is baseless. Point out flaws on what they do or say, instead of on the person itself? Or maybe I'm not allowed to criticize at all - not being sarcastic, I'm really wondering. NightAngel 15:22, 5 December 2006 (CST)


 * It's irrelevant if the stuff you say is fact or opinnion. There are some etiquettes in the internet as there are in real world social relations. You can't say everything you want if you want to keep good realtions. I suggest keeping some opinnions to yourself or saying them in a less negative way. It helps others to take you less negatively. --[[Image:Gem-icon-sm.png]] (talk) 15:40, 5 December 2006 (CST)


 * I think this has gone way off-topic, to the point that I'm not even bothered by the "shut up" suggestion. SKuld was careful to insult the build and not the builder "bs", "useless", etc. I'll be careful as well. And in the big picture, does anybody really care if a build is good or not? People will still throw out a rit because monks are better, and kick out elementalists who don't have mesmer as second class. Move on and create another group, instead of getting pissed at the guy who kicked you. So, moving on...Oh yeah, and heroes are horrible for farming, farming with heroes is a waste of time because they "steal" all your drops. 'Cause, yeah, sure, random party members will donate greens they get to you just because of your charming personality :) -rolls eyes-. So yeah, convincing ppl to try something they don't know? Lost cause. Totally lost. Just say it's crap and move on :)


 * I'm really sorry if you thought that I just said 'shut up'. That wasn't what I ment. I just tried to say that no one should always say what they think as it might cause negative reactions. Sometimes it is wise to not say everything that you come up with. But you are right, it's time to move on and forget about this. --[[Image:Gem-icon-sm.png]] (talk) 17:57, 5 December 2006 (CST)
 * On the bright side, have you seen the amount of votes the build has been getting? Goes to show if you build something nice and people GET TO SEE IT (for instance, by having been favored before the .ahmm. "slightly pessimistic people" arrived), it fosters constructive debate and positive reinforcement. On the other hand, if you bury it quick because you don't like it... well. No huge tragedy, this is not a cure for cancer, but it would still be a loss. Right? And I issue a small challenge to the Skuld-defendors. Find me one instance of positive reinforcement. One time he said "hey, cool idea", or "nice thinking, I'll try that out". None? Almost none compared to all the negative ones? Well, that's my point. Is it offensive? Don't think so. Is it completely unrealistic? Probably. People can be pessimistic, it's not against the law or something :)

Hello Gem, Barek, etc. I don't know NightAngel, and agree that negative attitudes and/or personal insults should be discouraged, but I'd like to come to his defense in a way. Its pretty obvious to me that Skuld does actually have a negative attitude, and I don't think I'm the only one who feels this way. I'm pretty sure if I remember correctly, the whole issue with not a fifty five had partially to do with Skuld's 'hit and run' unfavoured votes, usually accompanied by negative, unconstructive comments. I thought part of the outcome of the not a fifty five issue and all the build debates was that the voters should make more of an effort to follow the guideline of providing constructive criticism to avoid these types of conflict. But here is a recent example of the type of vote that Skuld often leaves Build:W/E Rodgort's Knight, saying only "Sucks". He often seems close-minded about new build ideas, and any feedback offered is usually insulting, condescending, or unhelpful. I know you will say that Skuld is a frequent contributor, but thats all the more reason to make sure he leads with a good example, since his name is seen often around here. Its not surprising that confrontations occur with newer users when they experience hostile attitudes from a veteran user. Furthermore, on the topic of personal insults, I don't think anyone pointed out that Auron managed to insult an entire group of guildwiki users by calling R/D Scythe users "retards" in his vote here Build talk:A/D Disciple of Death. Are there certain types of insults that are acceptable and certain types that are not? -- BrianG 23:10, 5 December 2006 (CST)